Manifestation is an amazing thing. Our thoughts can be dark or beautiful. As we concentrate on the positive and beautiful things, the more amazing, productive and optimistic our life gets as we absorb and pull in positivity.

Manifesting someone in your life isn’t easy; so it is important to have positive vibrational energy. Patience and consistency is key because the universe can take time to manifest your wants and needs. At times, the universe will only manifest  your needs. This means that it is essential to not get upset when that manifestation hasn’t occurred yet. To be upset, afraid, pessimistic, anxious or afraid are all negative traits and are characterized by low vibrational energy. It is essential to not stay focused upon negative things since that will attract low vibrational energy into your life and this will make your stagnant.

Be comfortable being single. If you are not comfortable being single then if anything goes wrong in your relationship then you’ll start to think on the negative aspects of the relationship or what went wrong instead of being comfortable with yourself. This can either lead to oneitis or having negative thoughts penetrate your being. So it is important to feel secure in your relationship and that way, you’ll have a happier partner.

Intentionally and consciously trying to create a better life for yourself using the Law of Attraction is important. It is a three-step process where you ask, believe and then receive (sometimes only what you need). Choose to think differently, focus and think about the things you want  to manifest, and get rid of the things that stand in your way. Visualize what you want to manifest and take action to manifest what you want. Taking action is extremely important, without action, you can’t wish things into being – don’t sit back and think things will fall into your lap. Furthermore, recognize the manifestation and appreciate it, no matter how small. Remember to choose to experience more of the things that make you feel good and deliberately participate in the creation of your future by managing your thoughts and feelings. And remember to choose to respond differently to situations in your life and live your live in a positive manner.

Feel positive and motivated, hold onto positive feelings and stay focused. Think about the relationship you want in a clear and decisive manner. Meditation is important in your manifestation and so is taking responsibility for everything occurring in your life and focus on the positive aspects. Be very aware of the role you play in creating your life and your future and align your mind and environment to make it happen. Be aware of the relationships you want, be aware of what it takes to place yourself into that relationship, use positive affirmations, clarify your goals, and even make use of a vision board.

Be on a high vibrational energy since this energy is linked to positivity, compassion, peacefulness and love. Be on that high vibrational frequency and manifest into the world what you want to accomplish and realize your dreams. If a relationship is your manifestation then realize it. Think about it, make it clear, and it shall manifest as long as you are positive.

Yes, Manifestation is a real thing but there is an extremely important distinction to be made first. There is a completely external reality from our internal reality. Manifestation is about bring that internal reality into an external one. We have far greater control over reality than we are predisposed to believe. There is just as much reality inside us, than there is outside us. Most of reality is an extension of ourselves and we can bend some of this reality with our willpower. By changing who we are, we change the frame that shapes our experiences. When wishes are granted, all it really means is they were very real possibilities to begin with.

Understand your relationship with the universe: To really understand the Law of Attraction, tune in to your perception of your relationship with the universe. In other words, it’s important to examine how you feel about the way the universe interacts with you.

  • Do you believe you can influence your surroundings so things happen for you? Or do you believe things happen to you?

Some people believe that they are a product of everything that has happened to them. They feel they have no control over the events of their lives. This is called an external locus of control. While others have an internal locus of control, these people realize that they have some control over the things that occur in their lives. The Law of Attraction works the same way. The truth is, your thoughts and feelings do have an effect on the events that take place around you. A shift in your perspective and understanding of the truth about your relationship to the universe can begin to attract better things into your life. Furthermore, we should all take responsibility for our lives and the events that occur in them; have a good belief system, prioritize things effectively and make the right decisions everyday. 

How would we reconcile this with a relationship?

Remember, the law of attraction only works when you go beyond visualizing and daydreaming, and launch yourself into creation. Don’t just sit there and take action. Is the relationship you seek realistic? If you are going after Rihanna or Katy Perry then that can be very unrealistic. Effort must be had in order to manifest. So if you are trying to manifest a relationship then put in some effort. Talk to girls, talk to the girl you like. Get social skills, be positive, think positive and will things into being.

Without any effort or positive outlook then wishes will not be granted.

A man goes to a statue to pray for blessings everyday. Each day he makes the journey asking to materialize his wishes over and over and over again. He asks to win the lottery each and every day. He keeps doing the same thing, everyday, until finally, the statue moves towards him and says, “buy a ticket”.

The moral of the story is simple, you can’t win if you don’t play. So if you want to manifest using the Law of Attraction then you have to take action in order for your wishes to become a possibility.


Glattfelder J.B. (2019) The Consciousness of Reality. In: Information—Consciousness—Reality. The Frontiers Collection. Springer, Cham.