The free woman is always the most expensive.
This is because she will say you can be in a relationship with her and she is easy going and carefree and low maintenance until she is not. She will start saying that Margie next door goes out to dinner every weekend so why shouldn’t she? Then every weekend changes to two times a week then three times a week until it becomes as much as possible. Then, Debbie that lives next door on the other side goes on vacation every year, so why isn’t she going on vacation? You now MUST take her on vacation, then buy gifts, then every year bigger and better gifts until you either die inside or you HAVE TO LEAVE. This is what a ‘free woman’ can do to you – this can even be called ‘moving the goal post’.

Moving the goal post.
This is a phrase that has moved into the common consciousness of modern-day dating. Moving the goalposts (or shifting the goalposts) is a metaphor, derived from goal-based sports, that means to change the criterion (goal) of a process or competition while it is still in progress, in such a way that the new goal offers one side an advantage or disadvantage.

Whenever you think you have ‘scored a goal’ by taking your girl out every weekend as promised. She soon starts to normalize, and underappreciate your time and commitment to the point where she wants more. The goal post will be moved to something else because she is just self centered, or her girlfriends are giving her ideas or she is being heavily influenced by social media feminism. This happens all the time, you start off a relationship with little maintenance then the goal post gets changed to X, Y, and Z until you can’t cope and/or keep up.

Life is not a dress rehearsal you don’t get a practice run.
Hindsight is 20/20 and you only can see all the bad things you thought were good when looking back through reflection. You will only see all the mistakes you made through-out your life because your end result isn’t what you wanted it to be.

Derrick Jaxn to a woman is the equivalent of candy when compared to the nutrients of truth. Derrick makes women feel good even though their mindset is wrong. He is literally the equivalent of candy or fast food. He feeds then comfort and fairy tales, tells them they cannot do any wrong and by the time they are in their 30s, 40s and even 50s, they realize that it was all a light. The same thing happens to a kid when he or she finally realizes that Santa Claus actually doesn’t exist. But unlike the child understanding that Saint Nick is fictional, when a woman that has been fed feminist ideals and she finally realizes it doesn’t work and truly wants to change, it is already too late.

I am sorry but reality is harsh and a man that is high value and has options would rather go for a young woman rather than an older one – this is reality. Not wanting to hear the truth is a defensive mechanism that is a disease that stops us from changing or seeing reality. If something doesn’t work with one guy and then the next and then the next, MAYBE it isn’t the men but it is you, the woman.

Ladies, remember that sandpaper is abrasive, but is a vital step in beautifying something. We are all not perfect so it critical to take constructive criticism and improve on ourselves in order to be better at relationships.

She has only been in a one-year relationship.
This is the girl you really need to be careful of, the type to have only been in a relationship for a year or less and for some, 6 months or under. It tells you everything, especially when she is fairly attractive and in her mid twenties – she has spent her time riding the CC and/or going to college and now does not have the relationship skills to be in a relationship or even maintain one.

The feminist indoctrination is robust in many women these days but this strong skewed feminism at the end of the road is a lie because a lot of these strong feminist women end up alone when they really want a male (or female) partner in their lives. These women go through life in a haze with a distaste of men all the while not understanding that you can’t have an over-correction of feminism and have your cake too, i.e. all men can’t be scum yet want a high value man in your life while you misbehave.

Learning how to behave in a relationship is a dying art. The USA, Canada, UK, Australia, New Zealand, Germany, France, Spain and Italy are considered low-context cultures, relying largely on explicit verbal explanations to keep everyone on the same page, i.e. it isn’t what you mean but what you say. In these societies (more so USA, Canada, UK, Australia and NZ) people are very self centered and they feel their self interests are number one, this trickles down into their dating lives where they do not covet co-operation in a relationship even though it is key. Because, for a relationship to survive, we have to be co-operative.

The media does not help.
I have said this many times before and will keep saying this, TV, news and social media should be seen as a negative rather than a positive when it comes to relationships. people are very self centered and media does not help. I keep seeing

Whenever you think you have ‘scored a goal’ by taking your girl out every weekend as promised. She soon starts to normalize, and underappreciate your time and commitment to the point where she wants more. The goal post will be moved to something else because she is just self centered, or her girlfriends are giving her ideas or she is being heavily influenced by social media feminism. This happens all the time, you start off a relationship with little maintenance then the goal post gets changed to X, Y, and Z until you can’t cope and/or keep up.

Life is not a dress rehearsal you don’t get a practice run.
Hindsight is 20/20 and you only can see all the bad things you thought were good when looking back through reflection. You will only see all the mistakes you made through-out your life because your end result isn’t what you wanted it to be.

Derrick Jaxn to a woman is the equivalent of candy when compared to the nutrients of truth. Derrick makes women feel good even though their mindset is wrong. He is literally the equivalent of candy or fast food. He feeds then comfort and fairy tales, tells them they cannot do any wrong and by the time they are in their 30s, 40s and even 50s, they realize that it was all a light. The same thing happens to a kid when he or she finally realizes that Santa Claus actually doesn’t exist. But unlike the child understanding that Saint Nick is fictional, when a woman that has been fed feminist ideals and she finally realizes it doesn’t work and truly wants to change, it is already too late.

I am sorry but reality is harsh and a man that is high value and has options would rather go for a young woman rather than an older one – this is reality. Not wanting to hear the truth is a defensive mechanism that is a disease that stops us from changing or seeing reality. If something doesn’t work with one guy and then the next and then the next, MAYBE it isn’t the men but it is you, the woman.

Ladies, remember that sandpaper is abrasive, but is a vital step in beautifying something. We are all not perfect so it critical to take constructive criticism and improve on ourselves in order to be better at relationships.

She has only been in a one-year relationship.
This is the girl you really need to be careful of, the type to have only been in a relationship for a year or less and for some, 6 months or under. It tells you everything, especially when she is fairly attractive and in her mid twenties – she has spent her time riding the CC and/or going to college and now does not have the relationship skills to be in a relationship or even maintain one.

The feminist indoctrination is robust in many women these days but this strong skewed feminism at the end of the road is a lie because a lot of these strong feminist women end up alone when they really want a male (or female) partner in their lives. These women go through life in a haze with a distaste of men all the while not understanding that you can’t have an over-correction of feminism and have your cake too, i.e. all men can’t be scum yet want a high value man in your life while you misbehave.

Learning how to behave in a relationship is a dying art. The USA, Canada, UK, Australia, New Zealand, Germany, France, Spain and Italy are considered low-context cultures, relying largely on explicit verbal explanations to keep everyone on the same page, i.e. it isn’t what you mean but what you say. In these societies (more so USA, Canada, UK, Australia and NZ) people are very self centered and they feel their self interests are number one, this trickles down into their dating lives where they do not covet co-operation in a relationship even though it is key. Because, for a relationship to survive, we have to be co-operative.

The media does not help.
I have said this many times before and will keep saying this, TV, news and social media should be seen as a negative rather than a positive when it comes to relationships. people are very self centered and media does not help. I keep seeing

A lot of guys still think like this, “treat em’ mean keep em’ keen” or the flip side, ‘treat her mean you then lose your Queen’.

The thing is, the trophy wife in its purest sense is becoming rare and non-existent. This is due to the constant sense of options due to the rise and rise of social media. And all this leads to is more negative relationship outcomes. Furthermore, women have become more masculine. It is so common to have a 5’3 woman that weights 120 lbs yelling in the face of a man over 6 feet without any sense of danger or retaliation by that man. Thus, one-way aggression is commonplace with men in the modern dating sphere and is being normalized and any reaction to it other than defence or placation is a big no-no.

Women either date too much or haven’t dated enough but this all lead to the same thing – the lack of bonding in their relationship(s). So, their ability to behave, form, bond, and maintain a relationship is very weak because they either feel relationships are not important and quickly move on to the next man or they have no idea how to act when they are in a relationship due to inexperience.

Women also like wearing two hats these days, playing the strong independent woman role during the day at school or work and then playing the role of the damsel that needs her meal paid for at night when she is on a date. Have it one way or the other but you can’t have both. This reminds me of a man that told me this, “You can either have it done good, done fast and done cheap. But you can only choose two”.

Who hurt you? Translation: I don’t like the fact that you point out unflattering realities about intersexual dynamics so let me try to shame you and say that you are hurt because you are dispensing advice that limits my ability to manipulate men so that I cannot leverage my sexuality for some sort of compliance from them. The “Who hurt you?” line gets messaged to me all the time because I expose the unflattering truths of what many women do because I shed light on the decisive advantage that women have in the dating space. I will be sworn at, insulted, talked down to and reported, but all that means is that what I say is striking a chord very close to the truth when someone reacts that way. Think about it, do people give time to the guy that says Lizard men abducted him last night and took him to Mars? No, because he is talking bullshit so he is ignored. The fact that women feel the need to reply says a lot about the weight of the words spoken.

A man being single is NOT the same as a woman being single. A man’s dating strategy is different from a woman’s dating strategy. Men are to spread their seed as much as they can while a woman is to lock down a man for resources in its least negative sense (evolutionary speaking) and protection, as it was thousands of years ago. Thus, a woman will try and seek the best mate possible.

If a man gets sent choosing signals then that means he is being chosen by the woman sending these signals, the worst thing to do is go up to said woman and say or do the wrong thing because she will be choosing you a second time or reject you based on your approach and what she sees or hears. You have to understand and realize that having ambition and dating intelligence is just the foundation of acquiring the things you want; the oil that makes it work is your approach & presentation.