You should make love to your woman as if your life depends on it because it actually does.
I have seen this too many times, boy meets girl, boy marries girl and then it is all downhill from there.
The thing is, you need to please your woman sexually. If you don’t then in a year, 5 years, 10 years or even 30 years down the road – you will lose half or more of what you own with the drop of a Judge’s gavel.
This can be all avoided by just doing the simplest thing of pleasing your woman. Remember what I have said before about the Alpha widow and relationships?
You need to make love to her each and every night as if it is your last. Make her feel good emotionally and physically through passionate love making. Too many men fall into a mundane lifestyle of not putting their all into their love making. I was never one to do this because I knew the importance of intimacy and what it does to a relationship – it can make or break you. If you do not do this then you will be left or cheated on or cucked or just Beta’d.
Just putting in an extra 5 or 10 minutes a night to make sure your partner isn’t sexually bored can give your returns 10-fold. An extra 5 minutes is just an extra 35 minutes per week, and this can save you hundreds of thousands of dollars by avoiding a common law break-up or divorce.
Imagine working all your life to save $300,000, $500,000, or $1 million dollars, all for it to be split in two. While, that 35 extra minutes a week will help you avoid this and help you maintain a masculine frame in your relationship.
Hey, you don’t need to be a Rico Suave in bed but practice does make perfect.
Make love to her.
Light a fire in your woman, in the bedroom and in her mind. Don’t make fast movements, take your time and linger. Kiss her passionately and look into her eyes since actions can speak louder than words. Let her know she is wanted and let her know you want her. She will want you back if you arouse the right feelings within her being.
Next, slowly undo her clothing as if you are taking your time to admire a masterpiece of art. Let her undo your clothing while you both still peer into each other’s eyes. Kiss her more and more with ever increasing passion. Slowly take her into your arms and embrace her, let both your bodies touch and linger in that moment.
If you can, carry her in your arms and head to the bedroom. Remember that love is both emotional and physical and it is all about giving. It is about expressing your desires in a vulnerable state. Let your woman know you feel lucky to be with her but don’t over-do this to the point of nagging or being needy. Don’t hesitate to let her know what you want to make her feel, how you want to make her feel and why you want to make her feel this way – this is about passion and pleasing her. Treat her to the time of her life and make it about her while pleasing yourself.
You want your woman to feel special. So, take all the time in the world – as long as she wants you to. You’re giving to her one of the utmost pleasures of the world. The act of love making is not a means to an end but the means is the end. That’s what makes the ending even better and will make her want to be there even more. When you make love to woman, you let her in so she can let you in.
Tips to make the connection happen:
Remember to avoid going too fast. Learn how to touch a woman, slowly first. Too often men zone in on the genital region way too early and this can be a huge turn off with many women. Furthermore, learn how to use your voice. Communicating your pleasure while you’re having sex will do wonders for her sexual experience. It not only gives her a good idea of what actions do it for you but it also means she has a way of letting you know when she really loves something you’re doing, or when it’s not really doing it for her.
Indulge her since one of the key reasons women are unsuccessful at reaching orgasm during sex is because they feel guilty for taking too long or for requiring so much effort. Thus, it is important to remind her that this is her moment and she should take as much time as she needs to reach a sexual climax.
Furthermore, try to use your hands more since most women find it difficult to orgasm during penetrative sex. So, slide your hand down between her and yourself and rub her clitoris as you thrust.
Make whatever sexual formula you and your partner have work in your love making. The bottom line here is for you and her to be both filled with pleasure in the end.
Your life depends on it:
Remember, a woman doesn’t want to be bored in the bedroom. As I have said before, a woman will want security in all ways except for passion.
As StephisCold puts it, “be all up in dem guts” – because if you don’t you will be gutted, metaphorically speaking.
What needs to be understood is that this is a serious problem that has an easy solution. This is also an area where many men fail because they get complacent in their role and too comfortable with thoughts of their woman never leaving. But reality trumps everything, your partner of 5, 10, 20 or 30 years will leave you once a better offer presents itself.
Many men can’t understand women. A lot of men mistake co-operation, affection, or sex for respect/love. But, men and women love for different reasons.
They say in divorce court and in custody hearings, “if you have a dick then you are going to lose”, and about 9 times out of 10 the men have to pay alimony payments and lose their custody battles.
Don’t let this be your reality and MAINTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
A man should never be complacent – be on your purpose constantly and protect your domain.
Hey, I can’t force you to do anything. I can just offer my advice based on experience. It is up to you if you take it or not, but to me, taking 35 minutes a week to save what it took me 30 years to build seems like a really good offer to me.